'Seek' Rather Than 'Tell'
The modern usage of mentor – trusted friend, counsellor or teacher – first appeared in François Fénelon’s Les Aventures de Telemaque in 1699, Wikipedia (2009). Dictionary.com has a similar definition for a mentor, “Wise and trusted counsellor or teacher, an influential senior sponsor or supporter.” And Wikipedia notes that “Mentors provide their expertise to less-experienced individuals to help them advance their careers, enhance their education.”
Today the word mentoring with respect to the corporate world could mean anything from performance monitoring to life counseling and everything in between, with little standard process or measurement. The role of a mentor is to catalyze skills, talents or behaviors in a person to help him/her be more effective on the job. It contributes to business productivity by enhancing engagement and efficacy for the person being mentored as well as for the team/peers of the mentee.
An important prerequisite in mentoring is the the presence of chemistry between the mentor and the mentee to build the required trust. The mentee must volunteer and see the benefits of having a mentor. Further, a good mentor does not give a set prescription but helps the mentee write his/her own prescription and helps the mentee evolve as a better person. Executive mentoring has resulted in a profound transformational experience in senior leaders which, in turn, has contributed to organizational effectiveness. An important aspect of professional success involves participating in mentoring programs. And now more than ever, during these challenging economic times, employees need mentors to guide and advise them as they navigate flattened corporate structures.
Mentoring really helps and is not a fad. Mentoring should be mandatory whenever an individual requires support. Whether it is a leadership role or customer service clerk, we should honor the new person entering the job by providing a mentor for them. By providing them with a mentor, we are setting up the new person for success versus failure.
There are four types of mentoring situations, which could take place at the workplace:
- Advice: Here, the manager simply gives advice to his/her employees whenever the employee requires it;
- Role/job transition: The person leaving (the mentor) hires someone to replace him/her and the new person (the mentee) ‘shadows' the mentor for a period of time in order to ‘learn the ropes' of his/her new job;
- Outside help: In this situation, an outside consultant is called in to mentor the new person in their new role;
- Assistance: There could be a new employee who needs support to learn the job quickly or an existing one who is valuable to the organisation but needs grooming.